Day 5
Jesus Says, “Love Others
As I Have Loved you”
Roger and Eileen Himes
www.ThePracticalGospel.com
Email: ThePracticalGospel@Comcast.net
It is preached that you first of all must love God with ALL your mind, heart, soul
and strength. Then you have to love others as yourself. Have you ever considered
the fact that, if I love God with ALL I have — what do I have left to love others
with? It’s a point worth pondering.
This is unreasonable! It is really even a human impossibility!
In Matthew 22:38-40, Jesus was asked for the greatest command under the LAW. He
replied with two commands: (1) love God with ALL your mind, heart, soul and strength,
and then (2) love others as you do yourself. As we will see, the law was not given
for us to LIVE by, but to show us we could NOT live by it.
Is Jesus demanding something impossible from us? YES, he is! This is the purpose
of the law: to declare us all guilty (Rom 3:19). We are told in the text that Jesus
was responding to (1) a TRICK question (2) from a LAWYER (3) about the LAW. He was
not being asked for a statement of truth — but only for a true statement. There
is a huge difference between these. Instructors in Christ, not just lawyers, traffic
in true statements — not necessarily or predominantly in truth.
There are various forms of love talked about in the Bible, but for our purposes
let’s look at two of them: (1) phileo love, or human love, and (2) agape love: or
God’s love. Human, phileo love is based on living by principles. It is a conditional
love based on subjective evaluation and perception. Human love responds to something
positive. I must see something I like before I will invest love in it. I must see
performance I like, or hear words I like, as a prerequisite to giving my love. It
is a qualified type of love.
Divine, agape love reflects the character of God himself. It is not responsive,
but directive. It has no prerequisites to it. It is not conditional, but unconditional.
There are NO conditions to God’s love or standards we need to meet. God’s love exists
simply due to the fact that God exists. John says, “God IS love.” You and I may
have a degree of phileo love, but God IS love. This is agape love.
The command of Jesus in Matthew was merely a statement of something true under the
law — as he responded to a trick question from a lawyer. Here he said we must love
God with everything we have, and love others as much as we do ourselves. Let me
reiterate: this is a human IMPOSSIBILITY, and Jesus knew it! It’s purpose is to
make us realize our need for gospel grace.
The actual command of Jesus is even more impossible
when you really sit down and think about it.
His command is, “Love others AS I have loved you” (John 15:12).
He is saying to love with God’s agape love,
not just with human, phileo love.
He is saying to love in a divine way, not just in a human way.
Wow, this is bleak, isn’t it? Humanly speaking, yes — but living in the gospel
process of God it isn’t! Keep in mind: nothing is possible in our ability, but only
by response to his ability. Our response-ability demands that we live by his ability.
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GOSPEL TRUTH #9
The key to the final command of Jesus is found in seeing he gave us two commands,
not one: (1) repent and believe the gospel, and (2) love others as I have loved
you. Instructors in Christ don’t see the first command, so they preach we only love
with human, phileo love.
The first command empowers the second. ‘Done by the Son declarations’ are what cause
belief to become reality in our lives. Belief is what empowers divine love in us
and through us. A human response of BELIEF creates a divine ability to LOVE!
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In case you haven’t learned it yet, we human beings cannot traffic in divine dimensions
— unless God empowers us to do so. The gospel is God’s means to preempt us, and
then empower us. The gospel is God’s way of transforming human, phileo love into
divine, agape love.
If we live by principles, the result is a never ending sermon leading to a never
ending treadmill. Every week the quota is raised, and the ante goes up. Teachers
can create hundreds of messages on the subject of love— enough to keep us busy for
years exercising our phileo love. Paul is not kind to teachers who teach this way:
“They don’t understand either what they are saying, or the matters about which they
make confident assertions” (I Tim 1:7 NASB).
Paul says we should all say the same thing (I Cor 1:10).
Paul’s only message was the gospel (Acts 20:24).
His lifelong purpose was to proclaim the gospel (Phil 1:7, 17).
What did he mean by ‘saying the same thing’?
He meant believing, stating and living gospel truth.
Jesus knows that the gospel is the way to connect with God, and enter into his process
of living life abundantly — in a divine dimension — in a super human way. This is
what allows the flood gates of heaven to open, so his agape love is not poured out
ON us, but THROUGH us. We’re a channel. We are vessels. We are the branch. We are
the body.
But unless we know this, and live in the reality of this, it stops the process of
God. He does not demand that we live in his process. The Old Testament demanded
but could not produce. God produces but does not demand. We must choose to enter
in.
We cannot make this choice if we insist on living life by principles.
Religious programs and principles are in direct conflict with the process of God’s
divine ways.
One is demanded by the Old Testament law,the other is empowered by the New Testament
gospel.
They reflect living in two different paradigms and dimensions.
When we repent and believe the gospel, we activate our choice to enter into the
process of God. We must understand this is not just talking about salvation, as
vital as that is. Instead, this means: By repenting, we turn our back on everything
else except the gospel. We become separated unto the gospel, and declare we will
continue in it at all costs.
By believing, we commit to have our minds transformed by gospel truth, and only
trust gospel truth (Rom 12:2). We are then translated into the vertical, divine
dimension (Col 1:13).
Our starting point is no longer SELF. Our starting point is GOD. This takes things
out of the flesh and puts them into the spirit realm. We enter the process of the
gospel. It is a process. It is a lifelong journey, just like Paul’s ministry (Acts
20:24).
Our goal is to be translated from our human dimension into the divine paradigm and
dimension. When this happens, nothing in the Bible looks like it did before. “All
things become new” (II Cor 5:17). Our eyes and hearts no longer have a veil over
them (II Cor 3:15-17). Our minds are no longer blind to truth (II Cor 4:4). True
statements no longer excite us. Only gospel truth excites us.
The process of God is a river that never stops flowing. We are either on the shore,
or we enter into the river. When we enter in, the river becomes a constraining,
and a sustaining force that we are caught up in. We are caught in its process. Paul
describes this in II Corinthians 5:14 where he says, “The love of God constrains
us.” Instructors say we are constrained by the LAW of God. Paul says we are constrained
by the LOVE of God. The gospel is what propels us in the flowing power of God’s
love, in what we think, do, and say.
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GOSPEL TRUTH #10
If you make the decision to enter into the process of the gospel, God will honor
it, and he’ll reveal things you’ve never seen in the Bible before.
The Old way might seem better at times (Luke 5:39). It defines things in black v.
white, or bad v. good. The gospel is grey, and it is subjective, not objective.
The gospel is spiritual, not natural. It is relational, not regimented.
God is not a respecter of persons, and nor is he a commander of persons. He invented
free will. If you are going to continue on this 40 day fast, decide now to enter
into the gospel here and now, and begin to sample ALL of its good fruit.
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I want to close today by showing you the process of the gospel in action, as described
by Paul in I Thessalonians 3:12: “The Lord make you increase and abound in love
one toward another.”
First, please see that God initiates it. It is the Lord who moves on us by means
of the process of his gospel. We are meant to continually receive the seed of his
love into us, like daily manna. Jude 21 says to ‘keep yourself in the love of God.’
John 17:23 says the Father loves us as much as he does Jesus. Continuing in gospel
truth will allow you see yourself loved by God — as much as he does his only begotten
Son Jesus.
Second, the word ‘increase’ is a personal word. It means that the seed has taken
root, and expands in us. Ephesians 3 says to be ‘rooted and grounded’ in God’s love.
To increase means that we become FAT in God’s love — even obese, spiritually speaking.
It packs us so full that we’re like a balloon that is so inflated it is ready to
pop.
Third, the word ‘abound’ is a community word. It means that we do ‘pop,’ and spill
over onto everyone else. The picture is, as you have freely received, so freely
give. What are we giving? We’re simply giving used love — recycled love that we
have already received and have become rooted and grounded in.
God empowers us in the process of his gospel, which enables us to love others as
Jesus loves us. We can only give what we have received. It works like this in all
things we receive in God’s kingdom. In God’s Kingdom and ways there is no lack.
His supply is unlimited. Our ability is very limited. “He who did not withhold his
own Son from us, will surely give us ALL things.” — “ALL that I have is yours.”
Our response is to pray, “Lord, I’ll take all you are willing to give.” This is
putting Mary’s words into motion: “Be it done unto me according to your word.”
Have you experienced the love of God? Do you believe he loves you unconditionally
— or only when you do good? Are you ready to leave the firm footing of the shore
and jump into the river of God’s love?